I will post questions and answers here for all the freaky stuff you horny ass guys want to ask me! So, come on and ask me something. A bunch of you guys will learn some stuff you didn't know about girls and their sexuality too. Don't feel bad...you gotta learn at some point..he..he. |
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[Sasha's answer: First of all you have to ask yourself "do I love to do it?", and if your answer is anything like-"I like it cause she likes it and I want to make her happy so, I do it. Or if you say...I don't really love it, I kinda like it, it's part of sex"- You probably need to give it up, cause she is not getting the real oral pleasure from you at all. There is only one way to truly please a girl or woman with your mouth You have to first love to do it. It has to be a passionate thing for you. It's alot like kissing. You really have to get into it, and explore her with your tongue, and give her pussy your full attention. Believe me she will know the difference between you eating her pussy and my boyfriend doing it. He loves my pussy so much its totally unbelievable when he does it. So, you better hope none of your wives meet my boyfriend Kevin. He is a master with his mouth. The only other thing I will say to guys out there who think they know how to orally please a girl is...please know all the parts to a woman's pussy. There are more areas down there that are pleasurable than just the clit. And, you must find out what you can do down there other than lick and suck the clit. |
[Ariel's answer: Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.
Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.
Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.
Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.
This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.
The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.
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aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple
ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before
depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can
continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more
easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur
during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very
sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable
sex she has ever had.
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[Sasha's answer: Well dears, this is one of those subjects that can end up making you very angry, and almost crushing your ego totally. Did you know that almost half of all women on the planet never experience orgasm? But that's not the kicker. The kicker is...that your woman probably will experience an orgasm at some point in her life. You just may not be the guy to make it happen..sorry. See..first of all most girls are not in touch with themselves sexually anyway. We just go through the motions the same way you guys do. We learn all the right moves as we get older, or so we think, and we feel like we have arrived at a good sex life. But for most of us, this is just learned behaviour from other people, movies, books etc. In order for a woman to experience the fullness of her sexuality she needs to be in touch with her body in all kinds of ways when she is growing up. This includes masturbation, exploring all her so called taboo places, in all kinds of so called taboo ways. But, for most girls this doesn't happen early enough because we, especially black women, are not raised with this type of thinking in mind. We are not taught that understanding your body beyond feeding it and cleaning it is very necessary for understanding and happiness in your future.(in other words...you need to know how to get yourself off in many ways, instead of waiting for a man to get you off) So, in this world we are taught to let the man chase you, call you, pursue you, take care of you, and also fuck you really well, and bring you to orgasmic heights. Well, for most of us girls, following that route brings us right back to the question that you asked at the beginning..WHY DOESN'T SHE CUM? Because she doesn't know how to cum. And of course you haven't been taught how to help her understand her body either because books, movies, other men, your fathers, uncles and everybody else has taught you that little flick of the tongue,a rub of the clit and a big dick is all it takes to make a woman cum. Well boys sometimes...no,a lot of times, it takes more than that.
Then of course you have to factor in the possibility that your girl could be very in touch with her body, but she's just not in touch with you!..ha..ha]
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[Ariel's answer: Guys...guys. This is an easy one. Every man should know that most girls are at their horny peaks right before her cycle(period) starts, and right after it ends. A lot of you probably didn't know this because for most of you that time of the month is off limits.She doesn't like it and you don't like it either. To experience her peak horny time, you don't have to be having sex during the cycle. Just catch her about 3 days before it comes on. You can expect her to accept all your sexual advances, and be extra freaky. Just make sure you don't bang it to hard, cause grandma has been known to wake up early if you make too much noise at that time. Of course this means you will have paid enough attention to your girl to know when her period is coming though right???? If not, get out your calendars and start marking the days when she wont let you in the bathroom to watch her pee]